1. stop being so inhibited. not as in “unihibited = barebacking.” but i am still bound by inhibitions about approaching guys for sex, or taking risks. i resolve to be more free (but still safe and pretty snarky about things)
2. blog every weekday. consistency is key.
3. dissolve the gut. oh, yes – knowing i HAVE to post a photo of my flab on here every day DID make me think twice (but not thrice) before reaching for the goldfish. a picture every weekday.
4. expand my stable of fuckbuddies. i need more sex regularly and with a job and lots fo projects coming up, i can’t spend all day on the internet.
5. stop jerking off (so much). seriously. i need to channel that into sex and not just saying, “it’s easier to just get in front of mr. 32″ monitor and shoot a load.
6. more latinos. w.t.f! i live in san diego how hard can this be, yet this year my latino to other nationalities was like 1 in 10! where are the latino musclebears i crave!?!
7. be more upfront. oh, yes … mr. chicago is included in this! i am pretty up front, but tick-tock – i don’t have time to hedge … no matter how hot they are. seal the deal or get out the way.
8. bottoms first. this is my mantra. i give in too easily to friends, family, work and fuckbuds. it is good for me to get my way and i do deserve it – so bottoms first in 2010! this includes dealing with mr. chicago. speaking of him …
9. let it be. we are sexting and texting so i will quit stressing. i am just going to let it flow. and for the final resolution …
10. go with it and be happy. come on … sex is like pizza, it can never be THAT bad. i always learn or am amused. so, let’s play a little more, laugh at it and myself a little more … and get my holw worked a LOT more.
happy new year and new decade everybody!
carb watch:
here is the base gutline. let’s step up, shall we? ( a bit blurry, but as we know, iphones are less good inside or at night!)
1/1/10
quote of the day:
“Alons-y!”
– The Doctor
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